Thomas Joseph

Matter, Jr.

Thomas Joseph Matter, Jr. passed away surrounded by his beautiful family on Friday, December, 29, 2023 in Fairview, NJ.  He was a young 65 years old being born on May 17, 1958 to Thomas and Anna in Englewood, NJ.  Thomas was a self employed massage therapist as well as an accomplished musician.  His family and friends will always remember him for being and outgoing and friendly person.  He would go out of his way to lend a helping hand and make everyone feel happy and comfortable.  His legacy will live on through his passion for family, music and life.  Beloved husband of 32 years to Maryjane (nee) Abbate.  Devoted father to Christopher and Arianna Matter and to Jules Harris.  Thomas was a lover of animals and is also survived by his faithful companion, Max.  He is predeceased by his sister Joann Diedrich. Thomas is also survived by many loving family members and friends all of which he touched in a special and unique way.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, Boston, MA or plant a tree in Thomas' memory.