Obituary

CAROTENUTO, Louise, was born Louisa Palma Mauro on Palm Sunday March 24, 1918, at home in the Shadyside section of North Bergen and left us on September 9, 2016.  Her life spanned almost a century and she could be the poster child for that century.

She was the fifth of nine children and truly the "middle child" with her oldest sister, Josephine
nine years older than her and her youngest sister, Beatrice,  nine years younger than her.
Her parents, Antoinette Albert, born in the Harlem section of Manhattan in 1889 and Angelo Mauro, born in the San Felice section of Caserta, Italy in 1879 had a typical arranged marriage.  In birth order the children were Josephine, Mildred, Joseph, Marie, Louise, Frank (deceased as a 2 year old), Augustine, Frank, and Beatrice.
Louise graduated from Ulysses S. Grant Elementary school as valedictorian, but as she always said, because two schools graduated together and the other valedictorian was from a more "elevated" section of  North Bergen than lowly Shadyside,  she became the salutatorian.
She graduated from Union Hill High School and as with all her siblings because "money was tight" went right to work. For a period of time she worked in a nearby Laundry and there met her future sister-in-law, Ann Carotenuto Provitera.   Ann's brother, Pat Carotenuto  returned from the Pacific in 1945 and Louise and Pat were married in 1947.  She lost her beloved husband at his young age of 68 in 1988.
In 1944 she joined the Navy as a WAVE, Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service, and was honorably discharged in 1952.  She spent her years in the military working and living in New York City doing clerical work.  She met and made wonderful friends during those years and was pen pal to many soldiers when they went overseas.  As those in her family know, her penmanship was impeccable and her writing style was warm, chatty and friendly.
Her love of music was legendary as was her beautiful, rich, singing voice. She knew all the words to every popular song written from 1925 to 1950.  As I heard her say many times "If I heard a song once, it was mine."  Last month,  having only seen Pirates of Penzance once in her life, when asked if she knew the music, she began the "Major General's Song". Unfortunately, around 1949, her deafness struck.  If there was one big sadness in her life, it was the lose of the enjoyment she derived from hearing music clearly and her difficulty understanding people when they spoke.  The advent of closed captioning in the 1970's at least made TV accessible to her.
She often said her older sister, Mildred was the historian, but I believe that anyone who spoke with Louise
knew that her memory for the history of her family and of historical events of her lifetime was amazing.
One day, when I showed her  the census for 1930, which included everyone in her area of River Road,
she began with the first name on the list and finished with the last, telling me about parents, children, marriages, divorces and extra marital affairs!  This information included  where they worked, who was friends with which of her siblings, who dated who, religious affiliation, grade in school and even drinking habits.
Louise lived most of her life with-in a two mile area, Shadyside, Cliffside Park and Edgewater but in 2007 she made the difficult transition to Beverly, MA to live with her daughter, son-in-law and their three children.   However, all things New Jersey always remained uppermost in her heart.  These included the bread, the pizza, the sfogliatelle, and her beloved Mets.  She lost no time in telling her doctors, her aides, hospital staff and even waitresses she met in Massachusetts that she was "a transplant" from New Jersey.
Even though her health was not always good during those years in Massachusetts she was a voracious reader and writer, followed the news carefully and always, always had a glass or two of red wine
for dinner with  Randy while she  quoted her cardiologist who said "Sure, go ahead and enjoy it."  She loved the attention and distraction of a busy household with her three doting and amusing grandchildren, Austin, Caresse and Cristina and  the families much loved and spoiled dog, Coda.  She relied on her helper, friend and confidant Sandy Doyle, who became like a second daughter to her.  She loved the frequent visits of her nieces Cheryl Augusta and Sandy DiBlasio and her niece Linda DiTullio who lived with Louise and her family in Edgewater for a year and considered her a second mother.
Louise began life in humble surroundings and remained gracious, kind and humble even in her last few waking hours, apologizing in the hospital for any inconvenience she might be causing.  She was truly one of the "Greatest Generation" and will be missed by everyone whose life she touched.
Her beautiful life will forever be cherished in the lives of:
her children Cynthia Nelson and her husband Randy and David Carotenuto and his wife Robin Ramey,
her brother Frank Mauro and her sister-in law Ann Provitera, her grandchildren Jessica Carotenuto Nahay and her husband Steve, Austin, Caresse and Cristina Nelson, and Elizabeth Ramey and her finance Tory Coleman and Daniel and his wife Amanda Ramey, her four great-grandchildren Jaxson, Chase and Beckham Nahay, Pierce Ramey and her many wonderful nieces and nephews.
Please send any donations to:
Epiphany Community Food Pantry
Attn: Debbie Bonura
247 Knox Avenue
Cliffside Park, NJ 07010
or
Aldersgate UMC Crisis Room Food Pantry
568 Ryders Lane,
East Brunswick, NJ  08816
The family will receive their friends Monday 4-8 September 12, 2016 at the A.K.Macagna Funeral Home 495 Anderson Avenue Cliffside Park, N.J.
A Funeral Mass will be held on Tuesday, September 13, 2016 at 10:00 am at Epiphany Church in Cliffside Park.  Interment to follow at Holy Cross Cemetery in North Arlington, N.J.
Friends and family are invited for lunch at Cafe Tivoli at 1PM on Tuesday, September 13th.
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